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How it works
A parental leave budget is a bridge plan for the stretch when a new parent's paycheck shrinks or disappears — measuring exactly how much income vanishes during leave, how much essential spending continues regardless, and therefore how much cash must be stacked before delivery day. In the United States the default scenario is stark: the FMLA protects twelve weeks of job-protected absence but pays zero of them, short-term disability policies typically replace 50–67% of wages for roughly six weeks of physical recovery, and a minority of employers top up the remainder. This calculator walks your specific timeline week by week. Partial-pay weeks contribute their percentage of your usual net income; unpaid weeks contribute nothing; essential expenses continue at full weight the entire time because landlords, insurers and grocery stores do not pause for births. The gap between those two streams is the number that decides everything — at these defaults, twelve partially-paid weeks plus six unpaid ones burn about $6,500 beyond incoming income, which means roughly $1,085 a month set aside across a six-month runway before leave begins. Seeing that figure early transforms it from crisis into line item: trim it via shorter leave, state programs in places like California or New York, or aggressive pre-birth saving.Formula
Gap = essentials × leave weeks − net pay × partial% × paid weeks | Monthly save = gap ÷ months until leave
Tips
- Confirm short-term disability enrollment before pregnancy — it excludes existing pregnancies.
- Check your state: CA, NY, NJ, RI, WA and others fund paid family leave programs.
- Cut discretionary spend during leave, not savings targets — the gap already assumes austerity.
- Time PTO payout into the leave window; accrued vacation softens unpaid weeks directly.
- Ask HR about sick-leave donation pools and salary-over-time arrangements before assuming unpaid.